Sticking It Out Long Term

Often we come across couples who have stayed with each other through decades and still are as much in love as their early days. Well, you can also get along with your partner for a long time and make your relationship work like them. Most couples have been through this, as a past working escort in Newcastle area, I understand what it is like to really love someone, as I have a lot of detached sexual experiences. Here are the secrets:

  • Your relationship should be driven towards one ulterior motive- that you have to make it work, come what may. In order to achieve this goal, you may have to resist the urge to prove to your partner that you are right, but you have to do it!
  • You have loved your partner as the way they are and have to continue doing so. Do not engage in wishful fantasies and impose demands on him or her as to how they should try to become better or rectify themselves. Give them their space because it is their right.
  • Keep in mind that miscommunication should not be allowed to play the spoilsport in your relationship. Even if you have an argument or quarrel with your partner, remember to give them the benefit of the doubt. Ask them that in spite of having good intentions, why did they act in the particular way that caused the misunderstanding.

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  • Do not interpret your partner’s actions and jump into conclusions. Instead, ask them directly and build such a comfort level with them that they feel free to share the truth with you. Do not assume things without hearing their version of the story.
  • No matter how close your partner is to you, never take them for granted, appreciate their achievements, respect them as individuals as well as admire them. Give them the necessary space that is healthy for a relationship.

Follow these steps and may you live happily ever after!couple-valentines-day-280116-640x457


6 Stages Of A Relationship That Bind The Two Together

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Making new relations is in human nature, and everyone,at some point in his/her life, gets involved in relationships which are different from each other in several ways. Relationships also have stages just like human life cycle. These stages depend on intent of emotions and trust in those relationships. Described below are the main stages of a relationship.

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Romance and admiration stage

This is the initial stage of any relationship when you are attracted toward someone and want to be with that person all the time. You passionately start admiring your lover without noticing any flaws in him/her. In this stage you have to strengthen bond of your relationship so as to assert a mature image for the remaining life. This stage usually lasts for 5-6 months, however if you are using Lincoln Escorts this stage can last a lot longer due to the company you are given.

The familiarity stage

When both partners in a relationship start knowing each other deeply, the familiarity stage begins. In this stage relationship gets stronger and intensity of communication between partners is at its highest level.

The status stage

In this period of a relationship, there is a chase for status between partners. A couple starts realizing differences and flaws in each other. There are conflicts and disagreements that can even cause a breakup. To survive this stage and build a long term relationship, feeling of sacrifice is needed. You need to leave the relationship intact and let it get mature through time.

The establishment stage

Everyone has some opinions and distinct expectations from his/her partner, so in this stage fine-tuning of a relationship occurs. You try to fit in with your partner leaving behind any special expectations. You try to adjust your behaviors’ in accordance with your partner to gain stability and confidence in your relationship. You have to discover new ways of convincing your partner and learn how to end a fight with mutual understanding and respect.

The confusion stage

Up to this stage a couple spends a lot of time with each other. This long span of time brings doubts along with trust in a relationship. You start seeing your partner as a vital cause for all the lost opportunities and other sacrifices in the past life. In this stage you start comparing yourself and your partner with other couples. It is just a normal part of relationship and you have to overcome this stage with steady negotiations.

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The maturity stage

When both partners have successfully learned to balance their relationship in spite of discrepancies, the maturity stage arrives. Both partners learn how to love more without hurting each other’s emotions. You start working together and set an example for others, as being in a successful relationship.

These stages and duration may vary from case to case depending on their culture and other contributing factors like respect, logical approach, trust, patience level, etc. Any relationship consists of love, trust and emotions; so it can’t be described in any factual stages. But if you are trapped in any such stage(s), do consult a professional for a better long term relationship.

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