Often we come across couples who have stayed with each other through decades and still are as much in love as their early days. Well, you can also get along with your partner for a long time and make your relationship work like them. Most couples have been through this, as a past working with incalls in the Newcastle area, I understand what it is like to really love someone, as I have a lot of detached sexual experiences. Here are the secrets:
- Your relationship should be driven towards one ulterior motive- that you have to make it work, come what may. In order to achieve this goal, you may have to resist the urge to prove to your partner that you are right, but you have to do it!
- You have loved your partner as the way they are and have to continue doing so. Do not engage in wishful fantasies and impose demands on him or her as to how they should try to become better or rectify themselves. Give them their space because it is their right.
- Keep in mind that miscommunication should not be allowed to play the spoilsport in your relationship. Even if you have an argument or quarrel with your partner, remember to give them the benefit of the doubt. Ask them that in spite of having good intentions, why did they act in the particular way that caused the misunderstanding.
- Do not interpret your partner’s actions and jump into conclusions. Instead, ask them directly and build such a comfort level with them that they feel free to share the truth with you. Do not assume things without hearing their version of the story.
- No matter how close your partner is to you, never take them for granted, appreciate their achievements, respect them as individuals as well as admire them. Give them the necessary space that is healthy for a relationship.
Follow these steps and may you live happily ever after!